The 70-year-old father died alone in the garbage house. The son was extremely angry and said that he had turned into regret after being beaten and turned into regret.

Nowadays, many couples who have not been engaged in family relations have caused mature divorce (divorce in later years) to divorce in mature age. A man in his 70s lost his wife's support after retirement and eventually died alone in a garbage house. When his son packed up his belongings, he turned from his original anger to regret and heartache, which impressed the cleansing businessmen.

Japanese freight organizer and cleaning practitioner Koh Zen shared a case. He received a commission to sort out the residence of an orphan man in his 70s. The commissioner was the son of the deceased. He had visited two weeks before his father passed away. He stepped into the house again and was shocked by what he saw now.

When Kouze stepped into the deceased's one-bedroom apartment in Kyoto, the house was full of garbage, cockroaches and other electrical appliances, there were no refrigerators, washing machines and other appliances in the house. In the two years before his death, the deceased did not pay the electric charge, but instead used a refrigerator in the first floor public area.

The dead man's body was lying in front of the door. He was found to have been dead for several days. It was summer and there was no electricity, which accelerated the rot. The floor was covered with fluid, hair and oil from his hair, and the smell of death was everywhere, which was very attractive.

North Jang specifically noticed the large number of high alcohol concentration bottles in the garbage in the room, including commercial spirits and 2-liter large bottles of wine, as well as piles of soaked noodles and supermarket boxes. He imagined a lonely scene where a person who could not make a meal was eating these foods alone, separated from society.

Long-term neglect of family, causing divorce in later years,

The son of the deceased revealed that his father, who had served as a public servant, was a workaholic and was very estranged from his family. The whole family lived with him until he retired. When he retired, his mother proposed to divorce because she was dissatisfied with her husband who had been working for a long time, but she chose patience for the family until her son became independent. She was originally a full-time home host and was waiting for the opportunity to break up. The fire of divorce was the pension, because her husband not only did not inform the amount of the pension but also used it without authorization, but his wife's unfair attitude towards this innocence has reached the limit of patience, which has nothing to do with money, but the collapse of love and trust.

For the deceased who had been ignoring the family for a long time, it was like a bolt from the blue that he suddenly got divorced. Only then did he realize his love and dependence on his wife, but it was too late, and the sons who had heard his mother's complaints for a long time stood by his mother and became divorced. The deceased strongly expressed his unwillingness to divorce and hoped to start over. Finally, the two separated at the suggestion of their son.

The son of the deceased revealed that his father was very regretful and tried to save it, but the mother was so angry that she refused to contact her, thinking that she could no longer accept her husband physically. Later, because his mother was sick, the son expressed his wish to divorce his father. The father asked to cheer up, hoping to give him another two years, and the family accepted this deadline. However, a year after the conversation, the son received a notice from the housing management company.

The father, who was unrecognizable due to his divorce,

"The year before his father passed away, the management company notified us that he had defaulted on rent. I was worried about his condition and found that his room had become a garbage house……… and, compared to the last time he met, his appearance was more sloppy and uncensored."

The son contacted his father's second-time business company, and learned that he had hardly communicated with anyone on his job and had no friends. This incident shocked the son because the father in my impression was always funny and humorous and had strong social skills; now he has become withdrawn and taciturn, and the gap is huge.

A year later, Jung Ju filed a strange problem with the management company, which revealed his father's solitary death. The son of the management company contacted the company said that the smell of corruption was emitted from the mysterious gate, and a large number of insects gathered. The police asked the door to check and found that he had passed away at home.

The father's death alone brings anger. After cleaning up, the son's mood changed.

Faced with his father's death, the son's emotions turned from anger to regret and reluctance. He said hatefully before the scrubbing, "Father was causing trouble to the people around him until the end, and he left without saying anything. I could only be angry." However, after the scrubbing ended, his expression changed significantly.

Son said, "When the room was still full of garbage, I felt very painful every time I stepped in. But when I saw the room getting clean, my heart suddenly felt a lot of relief. Finally, I could accept the reality of my father's death. Next, I wanted to slowly think about everything about my father."

"We can't understand my father until the end. I couldn't ask clearly, which made me feel regretful and made me feel that I didn't have enough job titles. I always thought in my heart, 'We are all adults, and there is no problem even if we stay separate. 'But now when I think back, maybe my father has no object to complain about ……' After the room was sorted out, the son seemed to be relaxed, and he could finally have enough money to recall his father's life and think about his last days.

Workaholic men are more dangerous. The high-risk group of

Lonely dying between men and women shows a clear difference. Women are more social than men, and are better at maintaining relationships with each other, so they are less likely to fall into isolation. Even when you are divorced or married, women can usually get out of the shadows and rebuild their lives faster.

However, once men divorce or have sex, they often lose the motivation of life, and even see the cases of leaving the world within a few years. Especially those men over 60 years old, retired and independent, if they have no social connection, they are easily addicted to drinking alone and eventually gradually get rid of social events. This makes the proportion of men's solitary deaths far higher than that of women.

To prevent orphanage, it is important to maintain contact with family and people around you. Establishing a stable international relationship can not only bring psychological support, but also avoid being isolated and helpless at the critical moment.