Don’t want to get married if you have a monthly salary of less than 50,000 yuan! She has 4 conditions that her friends don t listen to, and she is in a dilemma after three years of marriage, "
Some people like to enter the palace of marriage, while others advocate "not having a child without marriage". There is no distinction between good and bad in the two views, but after making a decision, they must be responsible for their choice. A netizen warned that if the monthly salary is less than 50,000, and people who have no house, no car, or no deposit should not consider getting married. And revealed that the friend's "unlistening" situation was to fall into the dilemma of borrowing money. After the article was published, netizens continued to express their opinions.
A female netizen posted a message on Dcard, saying that she thought that if her monthly salary was less than 50,000, and she had no house, no car, or no deposit, she would choose not to marry or have children under such conditions. However, the friend of the original PO insisted on opposing the opinions and believed that marriage was a guarantee for them. "Every girl, at least I dare say, must be more than half of it. She thought that boys could be fully responsible because they came out to accompany the other party, and of course the other party had to pay full payment."
The original PO pointed out that it is because of this attitude that many girls are not happy after marriage, and they are even more desirable than before. She also used the friend mentioned above as an example, saying that at first, the other party criticized her for not having a marriage or having children, and when she got old, no one wanted to take care of her. "As a result, she just got married and had children. Her husband had an affair in less than three years. Because she gave birth to a pair of twins, each person is burdened by each other. Because she couldn't afford to raise her, she had to apply for a lot of help to find someone to borrow money." Seeing her friend's departure, the original PO also felt sorry and shouted, "I really don't want to get married if my monthly salary is less than 50,000 yuan." After the post was exposed, some netizens and the original PO agreed with each other, saying, "If you don't get married or have a happy life; if you want to get married or have a child, you will be able to win you for a lifetime", "Really, you will have a happy life for one person and have a chance to win over two people; as long as a person handles one person's problems, the two people will have endless problems", "Agree to the original PO, many girls' minds are full of debts, and even the previous low card ( Dcard) Someone also said: Marriage is an opportunity for girls to translate their lives, "I have to say that many people in Taiwan now have that kind of thing, "Girls get married too late or don't get married, and no one wants it in the future." Especially a bunch of elders, I am really curious about this mentality and logic. Some girls have economic abilities and are good at it. Isn't marriage just a legal contract? How can I say it seems that marriage is the whole woman who nourishes them?"
However, some people believe that there is no need to interfere with other people's ideas. Just be responsible for your own choices. "If you don't understand why you want to do this kind of call. Are you still asking for reminders when you are adults?", "In fact, everyone can just follow their own path. Life is not such a simple dichotomy. My friend is a traditional person who must marry and have children. We have different choices but respect each other.", "So you must have economic ability! You don't agree at all. Like "every girl, at least more than half of her mind, I think boys can be fully responsible." If I hold this mind and rely on my partner to marry, then all the consequences after marriage will be swallowed by myself." "No one knows in the future, but your friend is just like this. Just like my salary is not high, but my marriage is beautiful and I have been born all the time, so no one knows whether it is not a money or not or a marriage, so choose to think about it and bear it yourself."
Responsible editor: Chen Yaomei
